Key Takeaways:
Maladaptive behaviors are any behaviors that contribute to dysfunction or disruptions in important life areas. Common examples include passive-aggressiveness, substance use, self-harm, withdrawal, avoidance, and daydreaming.
Maladaptive behavior can occur in anyone, although it’s more common in mental health disorders, such as anxiety, trauma, autism, depression, and personality disorders.
Psychotherapy, medication, stress management, and goal-setting are all effective ways to treat or manage maladaptive behavior and promote healthier functioning.
Understanding Maladaptive Behavior
Maladaptive behavior refers to any patterns of behavior that continue to occur despite negative consequences, such as in one’s relationships, life obligations, or overall well-being. Maladaptive behaviors can affect anyone, including individuals with mental disorders and other health conditions, as well as individuals in the general population.[1]
A key feature of maladaptive behavior is impaired self-control. Thus, many individuals may want to stop their behaviors and are likely aware of the consequences, yet they find it difficult to stop engaging in them.[1]
Adaptive vs Maladaptive Psychology
When faced with stress or other concerns, individuals can either exhibit adaptive or maladaptive behaviors. Adaptive behaviors involve facing and dealing with one’s problems head-on, which can be uncomfortable in the moment, but generally promotes long-term mental wellness and improved functioning.
On the other hand, maladaptive behaviors are certain behaviors that individuals use to temporarily decrease stress or promote pleasure, but without actually solving or handling the issues. Thus, maladaptive behaviors feel good in the moment, but ultimately perpetuate one’s problems.[2]
Examples of Maladaptive Behavior
There are many examples of maladaptive behavior, including:
Passive-aggressiveness.
Self-harm.
Withdrawal/avoidance.
Anger.
Maladaptive daydreaming.
Maladaptive sexual behavior.
Passive-Aggressiveness
Passive-aggressiveness is when someone indirectly expresses negative feelings or concerns rather than openly talking about them. People can exhibit passive-aggression in many ways, such as:[3]
Opposing the demands of others.
Resentment.
Not cooperating with or ignoring others.
Intentionally making mistakes or not complying.
Complaining about feeling underappreciated or not valued (e.g., “playing the victim”)
Sullen, grumpy, or cynical mood or attitude.
Hostility.
Substance Use
Substance use is another very common maladaptive behavior. Drugs and alcohol lead to temporary changes in mental states that often lead to increased pleasure and decreased stress, while also serving as a distraction from stress or negative psychological states, such as anxiety and depression.[4]
Self-Harm
Self-harm refers to certain acts that lead to harm or injury to oneself, such as. Individuals often engage in self-harm to avoid or temporarily block the distress they are experiencing.[5]
Examples of self-harm include:
Intentional cutting or carving of the skin.
Burning oneself.
Hitting or punching objects or oneself (with the intention to cause damage).
Forcing objects under the skin.
Withdrawal/Avoidance
Withdrawal and avoidance are two common related maladaptive behaviors. In general, they refer to the avoidance of people, places, or situations due to specific anxiety, fear, or stress. One of the most common areas where this occurs is in anxiety disorders, such as specific phobias and social anxiety.[6]
Sometimes, withdrawal or avoidance may occur due to other reasons, such as lack of motivation or not perceiving any benefit (e.g., “what’s the point”), such as in depression.
Withdrawal and avoidance temporarily decrease stress and promote a sense of safety because the perceived stressor or threat is avoided. However, this never allows the individual to see that they can function even amidst the stressors, nor does it allow them to disconfirm their assumptions or beliefs, which perpetuates the issues.[6]
Anger
Anger is not always bad, but individuals with maladaptive anger experience anger that is inappropriate within the given context and situation. Maladaptive anger often involves high levels of anger disproportionate to the cause. It also tends to be abrupt, intense, frequent, and excessively long.[7]
Anger often occurs as a way to hide vulnerability, gain control or power, or avoid pain or discomfort. Therefore, individuals with poor emotional regulation, high stress, or mental health concerns may be more likely to experience maladaptive anger.
Maladaptive Daydreaming
Maladaptive daydreaming involves excessive mental fantasy activity (often accompanied by physical movements or facial expressions) that replaces important interactions, responsibilities, and functions in real life. People with maladaptive daydreaming often engage in this for hours, in which they’re completely absorbed in their fantasies and unaware of the world around them.[8]
This practice often serves as a way to distract from pain, stress, or uncomfortable life circumstances or obligations, but of course, it doesn’t solve any of these issues.[8]
Maladaptive Sexual Behavior
Maladaptive sexual behavior refers to any sexual behavior that is problematic or inappropriate. Examples include compulsive pornography usage, unsafe or risky sex, aggressive sexual acts, or engaging in sexual acts that go against your values, beliefs, or desires. These sexual behaviors are often done to distract individuals from negative emotions or to promote temporary pleasure or satisfaction.[9]
Causes of Maladaptive Behaviors
Maladaptive behaviors often act as ways to temporarily decrease negative states, such as stress, pain, or discomfort, and increase positive ones, including pleasure and comfort. They also involve a lack of self-control and awareness, and higher impulsivity.[1][2]
Given these factors, maladaptive behaviors are more likely to develop in situations that involve higher stress and negative affect, as well as in people who have deficits in key skills, such as emotion regulation and self-control.
Specific causes and risk factors for maladaptive behaviors include:
Trauma.
Anxiety.
Autism.
Panic.
Personality disorders.
Eating disorders.
Trauma
Trauma is, by its very nature, a very stressful experience. Therefore, it increases the likelihood of maladaptive coping strategies to help cope with stress and other negative emotions. Trauma is particularly likely to lead to maladaptive coping strategies if it occurs early on in life, such as childhood sexual abuse or emotional abuse. If left unaddressed, this can lead to the continuation of maladaptive behaviors in adulthood.[10]
Anxiety
Anxiety can lead to maladaptive behaviors in many people, whether this is subclinical anxiety or a diagnosed anxiety disorder, such as generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) or social anxiety disorder (SAD).
For example, individuals with anxiety may be more likely to use drugs or alcohol to help decrease anxiety and stress. In addition, individuals with SAD or specific phobias may use withdrawal or avoidance to stay away from their feared situations, people, or circumstances. People with SAD may also engage in certain safety behaviors (e.g., avoiding eye contact) in social situations, which is a form of avoidance. Unfortunately, these behaviors tend to maintain or even worsen anxiety over time.[4][6][11]
Autism
Individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) experience social and communication difficulties, restricted interests, repetitive behaviors, sensory sensitivities, and other factors that often make daily life more stressful and difficult. In turn, individuals with autism need to find ways to cope and manage distress, which may take the form of maladaptive behaviors.
For example, stress and overwhelm may lead to tantrums, outbursts, anger, or self-injurious behaviors. The frequent anxiety and other negative emotions that individuals with ASD often experience may also lead to avoidance, withdrawal, or substance use as coping mechanisms.[12]
Furthermore, many individuals with autism engage in maladaptive daydreaming to cope with negative emotions or distract from loneliness. This often involves restricted or repetitive behaviors, such as stimming.
Panic
Panic is an intense form of fear and distress, often associated with anxiety disorders and acute stress disorder. It is often accompanied by highly distressing, yet often irrational thoughts or beliefs, which can lead to maladaptive coping behaviors.
This is particularly evident in panic disorder, which involves recurrent panic attacks and an intense fear or worry of having another panic attack. These individuals may purposely avoid situations, places, or things that they believe will trigger another panic attack. They may also engage in safety behaviors, such as taking medication with them “just in case” they experience a panic attack.
Personality Disorders
A variety of personality disorders are associated with maladaptive behaviors. In part, this is because they all involve specific personality “extremes” that increase the likelihood of maladaptive coping.
For example, borderline personality disorder (BPD) is characterized by emotional dysregulation, along with instability in one’s relationships, behaviors, and self-image. Individuals with BPD often experience stress, fear of abandonment, loneliness, and other concerns, which may lead to various maladaptive coping behaviors, such as aggression, self-harm, or impulsive behaviors (e.g., reckless spending, unsafe sex, substance use).[13]
As another example, individuals with avoidant personality disorder will frequently avoid social interactions and relationships due to fears of rejection or feelings of inadequacy. This may also lead to substance use, self-harm, or other actions to temporarily quell their feelings of isolation, stress, or anxiety. [14]
Eating Disorders
Individuals with eating disorders, such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, often have distorted, negative views about themselves, their bodies, and their actions. This can lead to a maladaptive coping behavior called rumination, in which they focus excessively on their eating experiences and consequences, as well as their body weight and other factors. This process makes it seem like they are trying to solve their problems, which may temporarily feel good, but it only exacerbates the issues over time. [15]
How Maladaptive Behavior Can Impact Your Life
Maladaptive behaviors can negatively impact your life in many ways. While maladaptive behaviors often lead to temporary stress reduction or satisfaction, they fail to promote long-term functioning and inhibit personal growth and development. Furthermore, they can also cause damage in many important life areas, such as:
Relationships.
Functioning at school or work.
Daily functioning.
Social interactions.
Maladaptive Behavior and Mental Health
From a general standpoint, all maladaptive behaviors represent inappropriate ways to deal with stress, anxiety, depression, or other negative emotions, and they never solve the root issues. Ultimately, this impairs the development of important skills or other factors for mental well-being, such as emotional regulation, self-confidence, interpersonal functioning, and stress resilience. [1]
Due to these factors, maladaptive behaviors tend to worsen, or at least maintain, mental health issues over time. This can also create a problematic cycle in which mental health issues lead to maladaptive behaviors, which then worsen mental health. [2]
Diagnosing and Treating Maladaptive Behavior
Due to the potential for long-term negative impacts on life functioning and well-being, it’s essential to accurately diagnose and treat maladaptive behavior, which requires help from mental health professionals.
Diagnosis involves a comprehensive mental health evaluation by a psychiatrist, psychologist, or other qualified mental health professional. They may utilize structured interviews, behavioral observations, specific tests or assessments, as well as information from parents, teachers, or other individuals who may have relevant information.
Maladaptive Behavior Tests and Assessments
The exact tests and assessments used will depend on the specific maladaptive behaviors that are occurring. Listed below are examples of common assessments for various maladaptive behaviors:
Passive Aggression Scale (PAS): This scale consists of 21 items that measure passive-aggressive behaviors, such as criticism, avoiding/ignoring, and sabotaging.[3]
Functional Dimensions of Coping Scale (FDCS): This scale includes qualitative and quantitative measures of how individuals cope with stressful or distressing situations, with categories such as emotional regulation and avoidance.[5]
Inventory of Statements About Self-Injury (ISAS): This inventory measures the lifetime frequency of 12 self-harm behaviors, such as hitting oneself, biting, cutting, and burning.[5]
Maladaptive Daydreaming Scale (MDS): This scale consists of 16 questions that assess the specific nature, frequency, and duration of daydreaming.[8]
Brief Experiential Avoidance Questionnaire (BEAQ): This assessment consists of 15 questions that measure one’s tendency to avoid unpleasant or uncomfortable thoughts, situations, emotions, and memories.[16]
The Tobacco, Alcohol, Prescription Medications, and Other Substances (TAPS) Tool: This tool measures the frequency and severity of drug and alcohol use, along with certain questions about usage motivations. [17]
Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder Scale-19 (CSBD-19): This scale consists of 19 questions to assess compulsive sexual behaviors and their overall disruption to life.[9]
Can it Be Treated?
Maladaptive behaviors can be treated with the right professional help and support. The degree of treatment success depends on several factors, such as treatment duration, the individual's commitment, and support from family and friends.
Coping with Maladaptive Behavior
Coping with maladaptive behavior typically requires professional treatment, along with self-management strategies. The exact treatments may vary, but may include psychotherapy, medication, or skills training.
Psychotherapy is typically the most beneficial as it helps individuals identify and change their maladaptive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Examples include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), exposure therapy, and motivational interviewing, to name a few. These treatments also generally focus on building key skills, such as:
Emotional regulation.
Impulse control.
Stress management.
Self-confidence.
Mindfulness.
Self-awareness.
There are also many strategies you can employ on your own to help manage maladaptive behavior and promote better mental well-being, such as:
Certain lifestyle factors, namely a healthy diet, regular exercise, and adequate sleep.
Letting trusted family and friends know about your struggles.
Journaling or note-taking to identify your triggers.
Goal-setting.
Self-compassion.
Healthy replacement behaviors for problematic ones (e.g., hobbies, exercise, deep breathing).
Takeaway
Maladaptive behaviors act as a temporary way to reduce stress or feel better, but they don’t solve the root causes and tend to precipitate stress and dysfunction over time. Fortunately, you can learn to recognize your maladaptive behaviors and replace them with healthier, more adaptive alternatives, leading to improved life functioning, stress resilience, and overall wellness.
If you’re struggling significantly with maladaptive behaviors and they seem to be taking control of your life, reach out to mental health professionals. They can help you get on the right path.
Frequently Asked Questions
The prevalence of maladaptive behavior varies widely depending on the type of behavior, exact definitions, and population involved. It can range from as low as 0.1% to nearly 40%.
Maladaptive behavior doesn’t develop at the same age in everyone, as it depends on many different factors. With that said, many maladaptive behaviors start to become noticeable in early adolescence through young adulthood.
Yes. You can experience maladaptive daydreaming without engaging in any other maladaptive behaviors.
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Star GorvenStar Gorven is a wellness and mental health writer with a talent for crafting evocative and evidence-based content across a wide range of topics. Her work blends analytical research with imagination and personality, offering thoughtful insights drawn from her exploration of subjects such as psychology, philosophy, spirituality, and holistic wellbeing.
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Dr. Jennifer Brown is dual board-certified in family medicine and obesity medicine. She currently works for Amwell Medical Group, providing virtual primary care services, including mental health treatment.
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